Parenting for Dummies

On that note, I am not a parent, but I definitely have an opinion. 

There are so many aspects of parenting, and I really don't have the time, the energy, or even the knowledge to discuss them all. 

I will discuss what I do know.

There are 3 styles of parenting

1. Autocratic: The dictator parent. Parent allows little freedom and often leads to a power struggle.

2. Permissive: The doormat parent. The parent allows the child to walk all over them. Parents give too much freedom or make decisions for the child. 

3. Authoritative: The active parent. This style is the most effective. Parent offers freedom within limits. 

Want to find out what style you are? Take this quiz. You will probably be surprised. I was. 

Parenting style quiz

STRESS

With any family comes stress. When under stress we revert to what is familiar. That may mean that when you get mad at your child for something, you turn into your mother. When dealing with your child in a stressful situation, maintain respect. Once you lose respect for them, they are likely to then act out. With mutual respect, so much more can be accomplished. It is important to remember that it's us against the world, not us against each other. 

We are worldly individuals by nature. We as humans, feel that we need to point out other's flaws because if we don't point them out, no one will. This happens quite a bit in the family. We feel it is our duty to make sure they know they have flaws. 

As a parent, you do not want to point out your child's flaws. It will lead to a low self esteem and self worth and it discourages the child. Be genuine when complementing and show that you have faith in them. This will encourage them to try harder and increase their self esteem. 

There are so many more things I could talk about , but I just don't have the time, and my fingers hurt a little. Lol sorry. 

If you do want more tips, I highly suggest visiting this parents guide. 

Challenge: Be genuine in your words and intentions. Don't give hollow compliments. Try to be a better example. Children are very good at observing. May as well be a good example. 

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